# Oasis For Autism

> Open Autism Support & Information Space


## Posts

- [Michigan: HSW Renewals and Changes](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-hsw-renewals-and-changes/): HSW renewals and changes: what to watch for The waiver funding your family’s services gets renewed and amended on a schedule most families never learn exists, through a public comment window most families never notice is open. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · The quiet paperwork that changes your plan 5 Years between […]
- [Michigan: Step-by-Step Guide to the Habilitation Supports Waiver](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-step-by-step-guide-to-the-habilitation-supports-waiver/): Michigan’s Habilitation Supports Waiver, step by step The HSW is the funding source behind most adult autism services in Michigan, and almost nobody explains it in order. Here is the process the way it actually unfolds, not the way the brochure describes it. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · The waiver that funds […]
- [Michigan: CMH Basics and Being Your Own Best Case Manager](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-cmh-basics-and-being-your-own-best-case-manager/): CMH basics and being your own best case manager Your case manager is not your enemy, and they are not your only path forward either. Once you know who actually does what, you stop waiting on people who were never the ones who could say yes. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · The […]
- [Michigan: Navigating the 10 PIHP Regions](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-navigating-the-10-pihp-regions/): Michigan’s PIHP maze Why the county line you live on decides whether your autistic adult gets day programming, crisis support, and respite, or waits years for any of it. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Adult autism services 10 PIHP regions Ten sets of rules. One state. Step 1 State Medicaid funding Federal […]
- [Isolation as Disability Discrimination](https://oasisforautism.com/isolation-as-disability-discrimination/): Isolation as disability discrimination Years alone at home with no day program, no transportation, and no plan is not simply a gap in services. Under federal law, unnecessary segregation of a disabled adult from community life has a name, and it is not an acceptable one. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · The […]
- [Appealing Denials Without Losing What You Still Have](https://oasisforautism.com/appealing-denials-without-losing-what-you-still-have/): Appealing denials without losing what you still have A denial notice has a clock hidden inside it. Miss it and you lose the service while you fight. Catch it and the service keeps running until someone actually rules on your case. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Aid paid pending, explained plainly 10 […]
- [What to Do When Your Adult Regresses After Losing Services](https://oasisforautism.com/what-to-do-when-your-adult-regresses-after-losing-services/): When your adult regresses after losing services A cut service does not just leave a gap in a schedule. For many adults, it shows up weeks later as lost words, lost sleep, and lost ground that took years to build. Here is the roadmap back. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Crisis to […]
- [How Caregivers Become Unpaid DSPs](https://oasisforautism.com/how-caregivers-become-unpaid-dsps/): How caregivers become unpaid DSPs Nobody hands you a job offer. The direct support shift just goes uncovered long enough that you pick it up yourself, and then it never gets handed back. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · The labor nobody put on payroll 40 Hours a week, unpaid A full-time direct […]
- [Safety Risks of Idle Time for Severe Autism](https://oasisforautism.com/safety-risks-of-idle-time-for-severe-autism/): Safety risks of idle time for severe autism Self-injury, aggression, and elopement rarely arrive without warning. For many adults with significant support needs, they follow boredom the way smoke follows fire, predictably enough that the environment and the staffing around a person can prevent most of it before it starts. By Jim Palasty · 13 […]
- [Transportation Collapse as a Hidden Barrier](https://oasisforautism.com/transportation-collapse-as-a-hidden-barrier/): Transportation collapse as a hidden barrier A missed ride never shows up as its own line item anywhere. It shows up as a missed medical appointment, a lost shift, a canceled outing, each one filed under a different cause. Follow enough of them back and they all lead to the same unglamorous root: transportation nobody […]
- [When an Autistic Adult Is Forced to Stay Home All Day](https://oasisforautism.com/when-an-autistic-adult-is-forced-to-stay-home-all-day/): When an autistic adult is forced to stay home all day “No day program available” is written on a denial letter like a scheduling inconvenience. Lived at home, it is a full day, every day, with nowhere to go and nothing built around it. Three specific risks follow that gap, and none of them are […]
- [Autistic Burnout in Adulthood (Not a Buzzword)](https://oasisforautism.com/autistic-burnout-in-adulthood-not-a-buzzword/): Autistic burnout in adulthood (not a buzzword) Autistic burnout is not tiredness with a trendier name. It is a specific, documented state of exhaustion, skill loss, and reduced tolerance triggered by prolonged masking and sensory overload, and it does not respond to the fixes that work for ordinary stress. Three triggers drive most of it. […]
- [Hiring and Vetting Direct Support Staff](https://oasisforautism.com/hiring-and-vetting-direct-support-staff/): Hiring and vetting direct support staff Self-directing your family member’s care means you are now, unofficially, a hiring manager, an HR department, and a scheduler, with none of the training and all of the stakes. Three things keep a good hire: being treated with respect, a schedule they can actually live on, and expectations stated […]
- [Teaching Independent Living Skills with Realistic Goals](https://oasisforautism.com/teaching-independent-living-skills-with-realistic-goals/): Teaching independent living skills with realistic goals “Independent” was always the wrong word. Nobody does laundry, cooking, or hygiene entirely alone; they do it with habits, reminders, and tools nobody calls assistance because it’s invisible. Supported competence is the honest goal. Here is how to build it in steps small enough to actually stick. By […]
- [Creating Sustainable Daily Structure for High-Support Adults](https://oasisforautism.com/creating-sustainable-daily-structure-for-high-support-adults/): Creating sustainable daily structure for high-support adults Boredom is not a mood. For a high-support adult with long unstructured stretches, it is a predictable risk factor for the exact behaviors everyone wants to prevent. Four elements, built into every day, replace boredom-driven risk with a structure that actually holds. By Jim Palasty · 12 min […]
- [Balancing Safety and Autonomy: Reasonable Risk for Autistic Adults](https://oasisforautism.com/balancing-safety-and-autonomy-reasonable-risk-for-autistic-adults/): Balancing safety and autonomy: reasonable risk for autistic adults Every skill your family member has ever learned came with some risk attached. Cooking risks burns. Community access risks getting lost. The internet risks exploitation. Relationships risk heartbreak. Zero risk isn’t safety. It’s a smaller life. Here is a framework for the difference. By Jim Palasty […]
- [How to Document Harm When Services Disappear](https://oasisforautism.com/how-to-document-harm-when-services-disappear/): How to document harm when services disappear When a service ends, the harm doesn’t announce itself with a diagnosis code. It shows up as lost skills, disrupted sleep, and a caregiver who can no longer work a full shift. Four categories of documentation turn that quiet unraveling into a case an appeal, a legislator, or […]
- [Why ERs and Police Become the Default Crisis Response](https://oasisforautism.com/why-ers-and-police-become-the-default-crisis-response/): Why ERs and police become the default crisis response There is no missing phone number that would have prevented most of these calls. There is a missing service system, and the gap it leaves gets filled by the two responders who show up for everything: the emergency room and the patrol car. Neither is built […]
- [When 'Community Integration' Becomes Isolation](https://oasisforautism.com/when-community-integration-becomes-isolation/): When ‘community integration’ becomes isolation The progress note says twenty hours of community integration this month. The reality is twenty hours of sitting in a van outside a store while staff check their phones. Policy language and lived experience have quietly stopped meaning the same thing. Here is how to tell the difference and demand […]
- [When Waiting Lists Act Like Policy Tools](https://oasisforautism.com/when-waiting-lists-act-like-policy-tools/): When waiting lists act like policy tools A waiting list is not a queue that eventually empties. On an HCBS waiver, it is a rationing mechanism, sized by legislative appropriation, that will never clear on its own because clearing it was never the design. Individual pleading rarely moves it. Collective advocacy sometimes does. By Jim […]
- [Person-Centered Planning When There Are No Real Options](https://oasisforautism.com/person-centered-planning-when-there-are-no-real-options/): Person-centered planning when there are no real options Sometimes the honest answer is that the county has nothing that fits. Person-centered planning does not require pretending otherwise. It requires writing the truth into the plan, in the team’s own words, so the gap is documented instead of invisible, and so you are never the one […]
- [Budget Methodologies and 'Medical Necessity' Language](https://oasisforautism.com/budget-methodologies-and-medical-necessity-language/): Budget methodologies and ‘medical necessity’ language Two phrases do most of the damage: “more cost-effective option available” and “not medically necessary.” Neither one is a medical judgment. Both are budget decisions wearing a lab coat. Here is how to translate them, and the exact wording that reframes your request around safety and level of care. […]
- [When Case Managers Cannot Approve What You Need](https://oasisforautism.com/when-case-managers-cannot-approve-what-you-need/): When case managers cannot approve what you need Your case manager is not the wall. Your case manager is standing in front of the wall, absorbing your frustration for a system she did not design. Three walls actually govern every no: budget caps, policy limits, and risk rules. Learn which one you’re hitting and the […]
- [Building a Paper Trail That Actually Matters](https://oasisforautism.com/building-a-paper-trail-that-actually-matters/): Building a paper trail that actually matters Not every piece of paper protects you. A notebook full of feelings does not win an appeal. Four specific documents do: the incident log, the service request, the medical necessity statement, and the follow-up email. Here is how to build them so they hold weight the day you […]
- [Advocacy without burnout: pacing, paper trails, choosing battles](https://oasisforautism.com/advocacy-without-burnout-pacing-paper-trails-choosing-battles/): Advocacy without burnout: pacing, paper trails, choosing battles The advocate who wins in year fifteen is not the advocate who fought hardest in year three. It is the one who built the paper trail, chose six battles a year, and stopped being the whole engine. Paper. Pace. People. Here is how. By Jim Palasty · […]
- [Building natural supports and community inclusion](https://oasisforautism.com/building-natural-supports-and-community-inclusion/): Building natural supports and community inclusion Seventy percent of autistic adults report loneliness. The intervention is not another program. It is two named community members who know his story and expect him each week. Here is how to build that in your town, one small yes at a time. By Jim Palasty · 12 min […]
- [Transportation barriers: building mobility without driving](https://oasisforautism.com/transportation-barriers-building-mobility-without-driving/): Transportation barriers: building mobility without driving Two out of three autistic young adults do not have a driver’s license by 21. The mobility plan for the other two thirds is not a car. It is a layered system of paratransit, NEMT, travel training, family, and rideshare with scripts. Here is how to build it. By […]
- [Meaningful activity when employment is not realistic](https://oasisforautism.com/meaningful-activity-when-employment-is-not-realistic/): Meaningful activity when employment is not realistic Not everyone can hold a competitive job. That does not mean the day has to be television. Contribution, mastery, and connection are the three pillars behind every purposeful week. Here is how to design one and repeat it. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Adult life […]
- [Vocational Rehabilitation: using services before school ends](https://oasisforautism.com/vocational-rehabilitation-using-services-before-school-ends/): Vocational Rehabilitation: using services before school ends State Vocational Rehabilitation is federally funded, free, and legally required to serve your student before graduation. Most families do not open the file until senior year. The families who open it at 14 get two years of paid work experience their student was entitled to. By Jim Palasty […]
- [Post-secondary options: supportive college vs vocational training](https://oasisforautism.com/post-secondary-options-supportive-college-vs-vocational-training/): Post-secondary options: supportive college vs vocational training Four-year college? Two-year certificate? Vocational rehab? Apprenticeship? Family enterprise? Some of these will change his life. Some will cost you fifty thousand dollars for a degree he will not use. Here is how to tell the difference. By Jim Palasty · 13 min read · Adult transition 1 […]
- [Grief, loss, and big changes: supporting processing and regulation](https://oasisforautism.com/grief-loss-and-big-changes-supporting-processing-and-regulation/): Grief, loss, and big changes: supporting processing and regulation Grandma dies. The Saturday worker leaves. You move. Your autistic adult was silent at the funeral and is now, three months later, refusing broccoli and waking at 3 a.m. This is the post about the six-month window and what to do inside it. By Jim Palasty […]
- [Aging caregivers and the double-aging reality](https://oasisforautism.com/aging-caregivers-and-the-double-aging-reality/): Aging caregivers and the double-aging reality Both of you are aging. Only one of you has a plan. The Letter of Intent, the special needs trust, and the successor guardian conversation are the work you do this year, not the work you do after the fall. By Jim Palasty · 14 min read · Long-term […]
- [Respite care for high-support adults: finding and training providers](https://oasisforautism.com/respite-care-for-high-support-adults-finding-and-training-providers/): Respite care for high-support adults: finding and training providers The worker who lasts is the one you train slowly, pay fairly, and trust with a hard week. Here is how to find her, keep her, and stop starting over every six months. By Jim Palasty · 13 min read · Respite 1 in 2 Unmet […]
- [Caregiver burnout vs exhaustion: self-assessment and action plan](https://oasisforautism.com/caregiver-burnout-vs-exhaustion-self-assessment-and-action-plan/): Caregiver burnout vs exhaustion: self-assessment and action plan Exhaustion is what a night of sleep and a real meal can fix. Burnout is when a week of sleep and a beach vacation would not touch it. The difference matters. Here is how to tell them apart before one becomes the other. By Jim Palasty · […]
- [Preventing abuse, neglect, and exploitation in services](https://oasisforautism.com/preventing-abuse-neglect-and-exploitation-in-services/): Preventing abuse, neglect, and exploitation in services The worker you liked last month is missing an hour of your daughter’s shift. Her jewelry is gone. She flinches when he touches her wrist. This is the post about what to do next without losing your mind or her placement. By Jim Palasty · 13 min read […]
- [Crisis communication card for non-speaking adults](https://oasisforautism.com/crisis-communication-card-for-non-speaking-adults/): Crisis communication card for non-speaking adults Your non-speaking adult cannot tell the ER doctor that she has a peanut allergy or that flashing lights trigger seizures. The card in her wallet can. Here is how to build one that survives a bad night. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Family safety 1 in […]
- [Crisis decision tree: 988 vs 911 vs mobile crisis vs ER](https://oasisforautism.com/crisis-decision-tree-988-vs-911-vs-mobile-crisis-vs-er/): Crisis decision tree: 988 vs 911 vs mobile crisis vs ER Four doors. Three of them are not the ER. Knowing which door to open in the worst hour of your year could be the difference between a clinician at your kitchen table and a tactical team at your door. By Jim Palasty · 12 […]
- [Preparing law enforcement for safe encounters](https://oasisforautism.com/preparing-law-enforcement-for-safe-encounters/): Preparing law enforcement for safe encounters A stranger calls 911 because your autistic adult is rocking on a bench at the bus stop. What happens in the next four minutes is up to a stranger in a uniform. Here is how to load that stranger with the information they need before the call ever comes. […]
- [Adult elopement and wandering: safety that respects autonomy](https://oasisforautism.com/adult-elopement-and-wandering-safety-that-respects-autonomy/): Adult elopement and wandering: safety that respects autonomy When your autistic adult walks away, the goal is not a locked door. It is a layered plan that keeps them alive without dismantling the dignity of legal adulthood. By Jim Palasty · Roughly 12 minute read 1 in 2 Risk profile Of autistic children studied attempted […]
- [Medication Management and Finding a Qualified Psychiatrist](https://oasisforautism.com/medication-management-and-finding-a-qualified-psychiatrist/): Medication Management and Finding a Qualified Psychiatrist Polypharmacy risk, what a real medication review looks like, how to track outcomes and side effects, and the five questions to bring to every psychiatry visit. The list the appointment is built around. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 5 Questions per visit […]
- [Recognizing Depression and Anxiety When Communication Is Limited](https://oasisforautism.com/recognizing-depression-and-anxiety-when-communication-is-limited/): Recognizing Depression and Anxiety When Communication Is Limited Seven observable signs that differentiate a mental health change from baseline autism traits. How to track what the adult cannot say in words, how to pursue evaluation that takes the data seriously, and how to escalate safely in crisis. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · […]
- [Epilepsy and Seizure Safety in Autistic Adults](https://oasisforautism.com/epilepsy-and-seizure-safety-in-autistic-adults/): Epilepsy and Seizure Safety in Autistic Adults Seizure types, adult-onset risk, medication interactions, and the safety planning that protects the highest-risk daily activities: bathing, sleeping, cooking, driving. The risk is well-documented; the safety planning often is not. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 10 min read 1 In 5 adults Approximately one in […]
- [The Gut-Brain Axis: When GI Distress Looks Like Behavior](https://oasisforautism.com/the-gut-brain-axis-when-gi-distress-looks-like-behavior/): The Gut-Brain Axis: When GI Distress Looks Like Behavior Common GI issues, how they often present as behavioral incidents in autistic adults with limited communication, the observation log that opens the medical door, and how to pursue evaluation without dismissal. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 1 Observation log One […]
- [Executive Function Support When Structure Is Resisted](https://oasisforautism.com/executive-function-support-when-structure-is-resisted/): Executive Function Support When Structure Is Resisted Four low-conflict strategies for adults who resist top-down structure: choice architecture, micro-routines, externalized memory, non-verbal prompting. The scaffolding the adult never has to argue with. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 4 Strategies Choice architecture. Micro-routines. Externalized memory. Non-verbal prompting. Scaffolding the adult […]
- [Sensory-Friendly Home Design for Adults](https://oasisforautism.com/sensory-friendly-home-design-for-adults/): Sensory-Friendly Home Design for Adults Five concrete changes that turn a typical home into a sensory-stable environment. Lighting, sound dampening, safe stim spaces, clutter zoning, reset corners. The connection to behavior stability is direct and measurable. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 5 Design changes Five categories. Most adults benefit […]
- [AAC and Insurance: Getting Device Coverage](https://oasisforautism.com/aac-and-insurance-getting-device-coverage/): AAC and Insurance: Getting Device Coverage The documentation that gets AAC devices funded, the medical necessity letter that does most of the work, the trial period that demonstrates use, and the appeal pathway when the first denial arrives. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 1 Necessity letter One well-built medical […]
- [Functional AAC for Adults: It's Not Too Late](https://oasisforautism.com/functional-aac-for-adults-its-not-too-late/): Functional AAC for Adults: It’s Not Too Late How to introduce AAC in adulthood, choose goals that matter (pain, consent, real preferences, not the color of the cat), and work with SLPs who do adult work. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 0 Adults too old Zero. AAC fluency develops […]
- [Technology as a Lifeline: Communication, Scheduling, and Safety Tools](https://oasisforautism.com/technology-as-a-lifeline-communication-scheduling-and-safety-tools/): Technology as a Lifeline: Communication, Scheduling, and Safety Tools AAC, visual schedules, medication reminders, GPS wearables, smart-home prompts. Five categories of practical technology that scaffold adult autistic life, plus the privacy-versus-safety conversation that every family eventually has. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 10 min read 5 Categories Communication. Scheduling. Medication. Location and […]
- [Social Coaching vs Traditional Social Skills Training](https://oasisforautism.com/social-coaching-vs-traditional-social-skills-training/): Social Coaching vs Traditional Social Skills Training The shift away from masking and toward neurodiversity-affirming support. What coaching actually looks like in practice, why the old curriculum produced compliant adults instead of connected ones, and how to find coaches who do the new work. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read […]
- [When Your Adult Has No Friends: Practical Steps for Connection](https://oasisforautism.com/when-your-adult-has-no-friends-practical-steps-for-connection/): When Your Adult Has No Friends: Practical Steps for Connection Friendship is not a count. Connection is what the post is about. Why the social-skills-training era over-counted, what supported social opportunities actually deliver, and what to measure instead of friend totals. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 1 Real connection […]
- [Recreation Ideas for Adults Who Need Significant Support](https://oasisforautism.com/recreation-ideas-for-adults-who-need-significant-support/): Recreation Ideas for Adults Who Need Significant Support Sensory-aware, low-barrier, adaptable. Three principles that turn most community recreation programs from “not for him” into “yes, with adjustments.” Plus the start-small approach that builds tolerance week over week. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 3 Principles Sensory-aware. Low-barrier. Adaptable. Three filters. […]
- [Day Program Alternatives: Building Structure Without Formal Programs](https://oasisforautism.com/day-program-alternatives-building-structure-without-formal-programs/): Day Program Alternatives: Building Structure Without Formal Programs How to assemble a weekly structure map from libraries, volunteering, faith communities, hobby groups, micro-enterprises, and home routines when formal day programs are closed, full, or wrong for your adult. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 1 Structure map One weekly map. […]
- [Creating a Housing Emergency Plan Before Caregivers Age](https://oasisforautism.com/creating-a-housing-emergency-plan-before-caregivers-age/): Creating a Housing Emergency Plan Before Caregivers Age Plan A is the long-term placement. Plan B is the bridge if Plan A fails. Plan C is the crisis door when both fail. Build all three on the same evening, in writing, before any of them is needed. The night Plan A fails is not the […]
- [Housing for Adults with Significant Behavioral Challenges](https://oasisforautism.com/housing-for-adults-with-significant-behavioral-challenges/): Housing for Adults with Significant Behavioral Challenges When providers say “we can’t take him,” the answer is rarely about him. The answer is usually about their staffing and their behavior-support infrastructure. A field guide to specialized placements, behavior support plans that increase acceptance, and the advocacy that turns “no” into “yes.” By Jim Palasty · […]
- [Housing Models: Group Homes vs Supported Living vs Shared Living vs Intentional Communities](https://oasisforautism.com/housing-models-group-homes-vs-supported-living-vs-shared-living-vs-intentional-communities/): Group Homes, Supported Living, Shared Living, Intentional Communities Four housing models compared on the four variables that actually matter: autonomy, staffing, cost structure, and who controls the lease. Plus the tour-day questions that separate brochure language from operational reality. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 10 min read 4 Housing models Group home, […]
- [Understanding Long Waitlists and What to Do While You Wait](https://oasisforautism.com/understanding-long-waitlists-and-what-to-do-while-you-wait/): Understanding Long Waitlists and What to Do While You Wait The HCBS waiver waitlist is rationing dressed in administrative language. The wait is real, the wait is long, and the wait is also productive territory if the family uses it deliberately. Four tactics that compound over the years on the list. By Jim Palasty · […]
- [Medicaid Waivers and HCBS Basics: A Navigation Primer](https://oasisforautism.com/medicaid-waivers-and-hcbs-basics-a-navigation-primer/): Medicaid Waivers and HCBS Basics What a waiver actually is, what “level of care” really means, why waiting lists exist, and the questions every caregiver should walk into the first case-manager meeting holding. A navigation primer for the program that funds most of the adult autism services worth funding. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for […]
- [Financial Scams and Exploitation Targeting Adults with Disabilities](https://oasisforautism.com/financial-scams-and-exploitation-targeting-adults-with-disabilities/): Financial Scams and Exploitation Targeting Adults with Disabilities Red flags, prevention, credit freezes, safe spending tools, and how to report. Why adults with disabilities are targeted more often, what the typical scam pattern looks like, and the routines that make a household harder to exploit. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min […]
- [Divorce, Remarriage, and Blended-Family Planning](https://oasisforautism.com/divorce-remarriage-and-blended-family-planning/): Divorce, Remarriage, and Blended-Family Planning How household changes ripple through three planning systems at once: federal benefits, the caregiving plan, and the estate. A guide for separating, remarrying, and blended-family parents who do not have time to rebuild every plan from scratch. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 3 Impact […]
- [The Benefits Cliff: Work, Medicaid, and Keeping Supports](https://oasisforautism.com/the-benefits-cliff-work-medicaid-and-keeping-supports/): The “Benefits Cliff”: Work, Medicaid, and Keeping Supports How part-time work actually affects SSI and Medicaid, why the cliff is mostly a wall built by misinformation, and the federal work incentives that let an autistic adult earn meaningful income without losing the supports that make work possible. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · […]
- [Representative Payee Basics](https://oasisforautism.com/representative-payee-basics/): Representative Payee Basics What a rep payee actually does, how the SSA application works, what the annual report demands, and why this narrow tool is not a substitute for a power of attorney or a guardianship. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 8 min read 1 SSA role One form. One narrow scope. […]
- [What Grandparents and Extended Family Need to Know About Inheritance](https://oasisforautism.com/what-grandparents-and-extended-family-need-to-know-about-inheritance/): What Grandparents and Extended Family Need to Know About Inheritance A plain-language guide for the relatives who love your adult and want to leave them something. Why a direct gift can erase years of services, what to do instead, and the conversation that keeps the inheritance from becoming a crisis. By Jim Palasty · OASIS […]
- [ABLE Accounts vs Special Needs Trusts (and the $2,000 SSI Asset Limit)](https://oasisforautism.com/able-accounts-vs-special-needs-trusts-and-the-2000-ssi-asset-limit/): ABLE Accounts vs Special Needs Trusts (and the $2,000 SSI Asset Limit) Two saving instruments, one cliff. SSI’s $2,000 asset limit has not moved since 1989. ABLE accounts and SNTs are the workarounds the federal government built to keep families from falling off it. Most families need both. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism […]
- [Special Needs Trusts: First-Party, Third-Party, and Pooled](https://oasisforautism.com/special-needs-trusts-first-party-third-party-and-pooled/): Special Needs Trusts: First-Party, Third-Party, and Pooled Three trust structures, one critical rule about Medicaid payback, and the most common mistake families make: putting the inheritance directly into the autistic adult’s name and watching benefits evaporate at the next month-end statement. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 3 Trust structures […]
- [Estate Planning Essentials for Families of Autistic Adults](https://oasisforautism.com/estate-planning-essentials-for-families-of-autistic-adults/): Estate Planning Essentials for Families of Autistic Adults Five core documents, one attorney appointment, and the orphan beneficiary line that quietly destroys SSI eligibility if nobody is paying attention. A field guide to the meeting that has to happen. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 5 Core documents Will, special […]
- [Sibling Caregivers and the Conversation That Must Happen](https://oasisforautism.com/sibling-caregivers-and-the-conversation-that-must-happen/): Sibling Caregivers and the Conversation That Must Happen How adult siblings end up in caregiving roles, why the planning conversation gets postponed, and the shared structure that prevents the worst outcome: a grieving sibling discovering on Wednesday morning what nobody told them on Tuesday afternoon. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min […]
- [The Letter of Intent: A Successor Caregiver's Field Manual](https://oasisforautism.com/the-letter-of-intent-a-successor-caregivers-field-manual/): The Letter of Intent: A Successor Caregiver’s Field Manual The single document that lets someone who has never lived with your adult know exactly how to support him next Tuesday. Routines, communication, medical history, triggers, calming tools, staffing, community. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 7 Chapters Routines. Communication. Medical. […]
- [Healthcare Options Without Guardianship](https://oasisforautism.com/healthcare-options-without-guardianship/): Healthcare Options Without Guardianship HIPAA, healthcare proxies, durable POAs, representative payees, and supported decision making. The instruments that handle most adult healthcare decisions without ever filing a court petition. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 4 Tools, no court Four legal instruments cover most adult healthcare decisions without filing for […]
- [What Happens at a Guardianship Hearing](https://oasisforautism.com/what-happens-at-a-guardianship-hearing/): What Happens at a Guardianship Hearing Court procedure, demystified. The petition you draft, the evaluation that gets ordered, the questions the judge actually asks, and the evidence that decides whether the order matches the support need. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 4 Hearing phases Petition, evaluation, hearing, order. Each […]
- [Guardianship, Limited Guardianship, and Supported Decision Making](https://oasisforautism.com/guardianship-limited-guardianship-and-supported-decision-making/): Guardianship, Limited Guardianship, and Supported Decision Making A decision framework that starts with autonomy and ends with safety, broken down by the life domain that actually matters: medical, finances, housing, social. Pick the lightest tool that protects the adult. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 3 Tools to choose Full […]
- [SSI at 18 and the Age-18 Redetermination](https://oasisforautism.com/ssi-at-18-and-the-age-18-redetermination/): SSI at 18 and the Age-18 Redetermination Why eligibility shifts the day a young adult turns eighteen, why initial denial rates are brutally high, and how to start documentation at sixteen so the appeal does not have to. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 10 min read 4 In 10 lose SSI Roughly […]
- [Healthcare Decisions and Rights at Age 18](https://oasisforautism.com/healthcare-decisions-and-rights-at-age-18/): Healthcare Decisions and Rights at Age 18 The day your child turns eighteen, the law reassigns every healthcare authority you have spent eighteen years building. Here is the punch-list to run before that birthday, and the one to run the day after. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 18 The […]
- [Finding Adult Doctors Who Understand Autism](https://oasisforautism.com/finding-adult-doctors-who-understand-autism/): Finding Adult Doctors Who Understand Autism How to vet a primary-care practice, pin them down on accommodations in writing, and walk in with a one-page passport that does the work of a long conversation. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 9 min read 1 Page passport A medical home is a relationship, not […]
- [Trauma-Informed Healthcare for Autistic Adults](https://oasisforautism.com/trauma-informed-healthcare-for-autistic-adults/): Trauma-Informed Healthcare for Autistic Adults Why a routine doctor visit can feel like a battle, why the body remembers the last time, and what to bring with you so the next visit is different. By Jim Palasty · OASIS for Autism · 8 min read 7 In 10 adults Autistic adults reporting at least one […]
- [Addition By Subtraction: When The Other Parent Leaves](https://oasisforautism.com/addition-by-subtraction-when-the-other-parent-leaves/): Addition By Subtraction: When The Other Parent Leaves Ten years ago my wife left. Six years ago I taped a note to the front door and she never came back. This is the first From The Heart essay, and the only one that will carry a name. From The Heart · No. 1 · Written […]
- [The Number That Explains Everything: Half the Workforce Caring for Our Kids Is on Public Assistance](https://oasisforautism.com/the-number-that-explains-everything-half-the-workforce-caring-for-our-kids-is-on-public-assistance/): The Number That Explains Everything: Half the Workforce Caring for Our Kids Is on Public AssistanceForty nine percent of direct care workers rely on public assistance. The median wage is $17.36 an hour and median annual earnings are under $26,000. This is not a recruitment problem. It is the price of the job, and it […]
- [Starting July 2027, States Must Publish Their Waiting List Numbers. Here's How to Use Them.](https://oasisforautism.com/starting-july-2027-states-must-publish-their-waiting-list-numbers-heres-how-to-use-them/): Starting July 2027, States Must Publish Their Waiting List Numbers. Here’s How to Use Them.For more than forty years no state had to tell anyone how long people wait for home and community based services. A federal rule changes that on July 9, 2027, and the reporting includes a line item most families have never […]
- [9.7 Million Direct Care Job Openings by 2034. The Government Still Has No Code for the Job.](https://oasisforautism.com/9-7-million-direct-care-job-openings-by-2034-the-government-still-has-no-code-for-the-job/): 9.7 Million Direct Care Job Openings by 2034. The Government Still Has No Code for the Job.The Bureau of Labor Statistics has no occupational classification for direct support professionals. They are counted inside a broader aide category, which means the shortage everyone is living through is not measured anywhere it would have to be answered.By […]
- [Tracking What's Disappearing: A Michigan Service Elimination Watchlist](https://oasisforautism.com/tracking-whats-disappearing-a-michigan-service-elimination-watchlist/): Tracking What’s Disappearing: A Michigan Service Elimination WatchlistOne Michigan service is confirmed gone. Five more items are moving. This is a living inventory families can check, built only from things I could verify against a primary document rather than a rumor.By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Watchlist6Items on the listOne confirmed elimination, five […]
- [The Two Conversations About Autism That Never Meet](https://oasisforautism.com/the-two-conversations-about-autism-that-never-meet/): The Two Conversations About Autism That Never MeetThirty one states have written Employment First into law. The Lancet Commission has defined a quarter of autistic people as needing round the clock care. Neither framework mentions the other, and families are stuck in the gap.By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Employment First31States, one assumptionHave […]
- [Only One State Has No Waiting List for Disability Services. Here's What It Costs.](https://oasisforautism.com/only-one-state-has-no-waiting-list-for-disability-services-heres-what-it-costs/): Only One State Has No Waiting List for Disability Services. Here’s What It Costs.I went looking for states that eliminated their waiting lists and found that most of the ones people name did not. California is the real answer, because the Lanterman Act makes services a legal entitlement, and that is a choice with a […]
- [Michigan's Three Waivers Explained: HSW, MI Choice, and the Children's Waiver](https://oasisforautism.com/michigans-three-waivers-explained-hsw-mi-choice-and-the-childrens-waiver/): Michigan’s Three Waivers Explained: HSW, MI Choice, and the Children’s WaiverMichigan runs three separate home and community based waivers, and they do not connect the way families assume. Different eligibility, different doors, different lists. Here is which one you are actually looking for.By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Michigan waivers3Doors, not oneSeparate waivers, […]
- [MDHHS Tried to Consolidate Michigan's Behavioral Health System. A Court Stopped It.](https://oasisforautism.com/mdhhs-tried-to-consolidate-michigans-behavioral-health-system-a-court-stopped-it/): MDHHS Tried to Consolidate Michigan’s Behavioral Health System. A Court Stopped It.Ten regional entities would have become three. A consultant was paid millions to design the procurement. In January 2026 the Court of Claims found it conflicted with the Mental Health Code, and by February the department had withdrawn it.By Jim Palasty · 11 min […]
- [Maryland Advocates Clawed Back $300 Million in Disability Cuts: Here's the Playbook](https://oasisforautism.com/maryland-advocates-clawed-back-300-million-in-disability-cuts-heres-the-playbook/): Maryland Advocates Clawed Back $300 Million in Disability Cuts: Here’s the PlaybookMaryland’s governor proposed cutting $457 million from the Developmental Disabilities Administration. Ten weeks later the House Appropriations Committee restored $300 million of it. The method is repeatable and Michigan families should study it.By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Advocacy playbook$300MRestored in ten […]
- [Illinois Built the DSP Wage Into the Rate. Michigan Stacked Three Temporary Add-Ons.](https://oasisforautism.com/illinois-built-the-dsp-wage-into-the-rate-michigan-stacked-three-temporary-add-ons/): Illinois Built the DSP Wage Into the Rate. Michigan Stacked Three Temporary Add-Ons.Both states raised direct care wages. Only one of them made the raise permanent. Michigan’s entire increase sits on top of the base rate as a passthrough that has to be re-funded, and that structural difference is the whole story.By Jim Palasty · […]
- [96% of the Money That Keeps People Home Is Optional. Most of the Money That Institutionalizes Them Is Not.](https://oasisforautism.com/96-of-the-money-that-keeps-people-home-is-optional-most-of-the-money-that-institutionalizes-them-is-not/): 96% of the Money That Keeps People Home Is Optional. Most of the Money That Institutionalizes Them Is Not.Federal Medicaid law makes nursing facility care mandatory and home and community based services optional. MACPAC’s own numbers show what that does to the budget, and it explains why the same services get cut every single time.By […]
- [63 Months: The Average Wait for Autism Services Through Medicaid Waivers](https://oasisforautism.com/63-months-the-average-wait-for-autism-services-through-medicaid-waivers/): 63 Months: The Average Wait for Autism Services Through Medicaid WaiversMore than five years. That is the national average wait for an autism-specific Medicaid waiver, against 37 months for intellectual and developmental disability waivers. Autistic people wait longer than anyone else being counted.By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Waiting lists63Months, on averageThe national […]
- [52% of Providers Are Considering More Cuts: Inside the Provider Collapse](https://oasisforautism.com/52-of-providers-are-considering-more-cuts-inside-the-provider-collapse/): 52% of Providers Are Considering More Cuts: Inside the Provider CollapseANCOR surveyed 469 provider organizations across 48 states in 2025. More than half are considering further program cuts, up from about a third a year earlier. That is the largest single-year jump the survey has recorded.By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Provider collapse52%Weighing […]
- [“10 ABA Agencies Refused to Serve My Son”: When the System Isn’t Built for Severe Autism](https://oasisforautism.com/10-aba-agencies-refused-to-serve-my-son-when-the-system-isnt-built-for-severe-autism/): Ten ABA agencies refused to serve my son: when the system isn’t built for severe autism A mother in California counted the refusals. Ten agencies, each saying they lacked qualified staff for her son’s behavioral needs. Nobody was lying. That is what makes it a policy problem instead of a customer service problem. By Jim […]
- [Profound Autism: Why 1 in 4 Autistic People Need a Different Policy Conversation](https://oasisforautism.com/profound-autism-why-1-in-4-autistic-people-need-a-different-policy-conversation/): Profound autism: why 1 in 4 autistic people need a different policy conversation The Lancet Commission drew a line: eight or older, needing 24-hour access to an adult caregiver, with an IQ under 50 or minimal spoken language. The CDC found 26.7% of autistic children on the far side of it. By Jim Palasty · […]
- [5 Bills Every Michigan Disability Family Should Know About in 2026](https://oasisforautism.com/5-bills-every-michigan-disability-family-should-know-about-in-2026/): 5 bills every Michigan disability family should know about in 2026 Four federal bills and one state budget fight. Each one has a bill number, a committee, and a person whose job includes answering your email about it. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Legislative tracking 5 Bills to track Four in Congress, […]
- [42 States Have Supported Decision-Making Laws: Michigan Still Doesn’t](https://oasisforautism.com/42-states-have-supported-decision-making-laws-michigan-still-doesnt/): 42 states have supported decision-making laws. Michigan still doesn’t. Twenty-four states and DC have a supported decision-making statute. Eighteen more require courts to consider it before appointing a guardian. Michigan has neither, which changes what you have to do here. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Decision-making options 0 Michigan SDM statutes Not […]
- [K.B. v. Michigan DHHS: What the Children’s HCBS Settlement Means for Adult Services](https://oasisforautism.com/k-b-v-michigan-dhhs-what-the-childrens-hcbs-settlement-means-for-adult-services/): K.B. v. Michigan DHHS: what the children’s HCBS settlement means for adult services A federal court made Michigan build statewide intensive home and community based services for children. Your adult child is not covered. Three things the court established are still usable, and this post is about those three. By Jim Palasty · 11 min […]
- [The ARPA Cliff: What Happens Now That the Emergency HCBS Money Is Gone](https://oasisforautism.com/the-arpa-cliff-what-happens-now-that-the-emergency-hcbs-money-is-gone/): The ARPA cliff: what happens now that the emergency HCBS money is gone States planned to spend an estimated $37.1 billion on home and community based services, most of it on the workforce. It was one-time money spent on a permanent problem, and the deadline has arrived. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · […]
- [Michigan Pays Direct Care Workers $17.13. Illinois Pays $21.30.](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-pays-direct-care-workers-17-13-illinois-pays-21-30/): Michigan pays direct care workers $17.13. Illinois pays $21.30. Same labor market, same year, same job. A four dollar and seventeen cent gap that Michigan rebuilds by hand every single budget cycle, because it has never made the raise permanent. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Michigan workforce $4.17 The hourly gap Between […]
- [Medicaid Work Requirements Start January 2027: Is Your Family Member Exempt?](https://oasisforautism.com/medicaid-work-requirements-start-january-2027-is-your-family-member-exempt/): Medicaid work requirements start January 2027. Is your family member exempt? Eighty hours a month, ages 19 to 64, starting January 1, 2027. Your adult child is almost certainly exempt. Arkansas proved that being exempt and being able to prove it are two different things. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Medicaid eligibility […]
- [The CMS Access Rule: 5 New Requirements That Could Transform HCBS If They Survive](https://oasisforautism.com/the-cms-access-rule-5-new-requirements-that-could-transform-hcbs-if-they-survive/): The CMS Access Rule: 5 new requirements that could transform HCBS if they survive A 2024 federal rule tells states how much of your adult child’s service dollar has to reach the person doing the work, and when they have to prove it. The deadlines run from 2026 to 2030. By Jim Palasty · 11 […]
- [The Waskul Settlement Changed Michigan Self-Determination: Are You Using Your New Rights?](https://oasisforautism.com/the-waskul-settlement-changed-michigan-self-determination-are-you-using-your-new-rights/): The Waskul settlement changed Michigan self-determination. Are you using your new rights? A federal court set a floor under Community Living Supports budgets, gave administrative law judges the power to order a specific budget, and put over $110 million behind it. Most families have never been told. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · […]
- [Self-Direction as a Survival Strategy: When You Can’t Find a Worker, Become the Employer](https://oasisforautism.com/self-direction-as-a-survival-strategy-when-you-cant-find-a-worker-become-the-employer/): Self-direction as a survival strategy: when you can’t find a worker, become the employer Every state and the District of Columbia now offer some form of consumer-directed personal care. In a workforce crisis with turnover near 40%, hiring your own worker has stopped being a preference and started being the only reliable option. By Jim […]
- [Can Michigan Pay You to Care for Your Adult Child? A Step-by-Step Guide to Home Help](https://oasisforautism.com/can-michigan-pay-you-to-care-for-your-adult-child-a-step-by-step-guide-to-home-help/): Can Michigan pay you to care for your adult child? A step-by-step guide to Home Help Yes, once they turn eighteen. Michigan’s Home Help program is a Medicaid State Plan benefit with no waiting list, currently paying $17.13 an hour, and most families find out about it years later than they should have. By Jim […]
- [Customized Employment: Is It a Real Option for Your High-Support-Needs Adult?](https://oasisforautism.com/customized-employment-is-it-a-real-option-for-your-high-support-needs-adult/): Customized employment: is it a real option for your high-support-needs adult? It is promoted specifically for people most affected by disability. A 2023 review found eighteen studies and zero randomized trials. Here is what the evidence actually supports and what it does not. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Employment options 0 Randomized […]
- [Employment First Is Failing Level 3 Adults, and Nobody’s Tracking the Outcomes](https://oasisforautism.com/employment-first-is-failing-level-3-adults-and-nobodys-tracking-the-outcomes/): Employment First is failing Level 3 adults, and nobody’s tracking the outcomes Thirty-one states passed Employment First legislation. The national competitive integrated employment rate for people served by state disability agencies is 16%. The other 84% are a policy category nobody named. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Employment policy 16% In integrated […]
- [Building Evidence That Gets Services Approved: Photograph, Video, Write It Down](https://oasisforautism.com/building-evidence-that-gets-services-approved-photograph-video-write-it-down/): Building evidence that gets services approved: photograph, video, write it down Five kinds of evidence decide most waiver and service disputes, and four of them you have to create yourself. Nobody at your Community Mental Health agency is going to build this record for you. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Documentation 5 […]
- [The Binder That Could Save Your Family: Building a Lifetime Advocacy Record](https://oasisforautism.com/the-binder-that-could-save-your-family-building-a-lifetime-advocacy-record/): The binder that could save your family: building a lifetime advocacy record Nine sections, one three-ring binder, and a rule about writing things down that has settled more disputes in my life than any argument I have ever won out loud. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · Documentation 9 Sections, one binder The […]
- [What Happens When the Day Program Closes and Nobody Tells You What’s Next](https://oasisforautism.com/what-happens-when-the-day-program-closes-and-nobody-tells-you-whats-next/): What happens when the day program closes and nobody tells you what’s next Nearly three in ten disability service providers discontinued programs because they could not staff them. There is no agency whose job it is to catch your adult child when one of those programs is yours. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read […]
- [Michigan's Day Program Landscape: What's Left After Prevocational Services Disappeared](https://oasisforautism.com/michigans-day-program-landscape-whats-left-after-prevocational-services-disappeared/): Michigan’s day program landscape after prevocational services disappeared Michigan removed Prevocational Services from the Habilitation Supports Waiver in the renewal effective October 2024 and gave families six months to land somewhere else. Here is what is actually left, and how the replacements differ. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Michigan day programs 6 […]
- [The Drexel Study: 99% of Autistic Adults Not Receiving Public Employment Services](https://oasisforautism.com/the-drexel-study-99-of-autistic-adults-not-receiving-public-employment-services/): The Drexel study: 99% of autistic adults are not receiving public employment services Researchers matched nine years of Medicaid and Vocational Rehabilitation records against the population that needed help working. Almost nobody was in either system, and Medicaid was spending less at the end than at the start. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read […]
- [By the Numbers: The Adult Autism Services Gap in 7 Charts](https://oasisforautism.com/by-the-numbers-the-adult-autism-services-gap-in-7-charts/): By the numbers: the adult autism services gap in 7 charts Seven federal figures, none of them controversial, none of them disputed. Put them side by side and the gap between how many autistic adults exist and how many get served stops being an opinion. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Data and […]
- [Provider Rate Increases Over 21 Years: 35% While Inflation Rose 64%](https://oasisforautism.com/provider-rate-increases-over-21-years-35-while-inflation-rose-64/): Twenty one years, 35 percent, and the gap that ate the workforce Kansas put the numbers side by side and the arithmetic is unforgiving. Provider rates rose 35.2 percent. Consumer prices rose 63.86 percent. Nearly 29 points of purchasing power gone, quietly, one budget cycle at a time. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read […]
- [How 60 Years of Broken Promises Created Today's Adult Autism Crisis](https://oasisforautism.com/how-60-years-of-broken-promises-created-todays-adult-autism-crisis/): Sixty years of promises and the crisis they built Nobody designed this. That is the problem. Six decades of reasonable decisions, each solving the previous decade’s emergency, stacked into a system where the cheapest option is the one families have to wait three years for. By Jim Palasty · 13 min read · Policy history […]
- [CLS Waitlists in Every Michigan County: When There's Nobody to Send](https://oasisforautism.com/cls-waitlists-in-every-michigan-county-when-theres-nobody-to-send/): When the hours are authorized and nobody shows up A denial you can appeal. An unfilled shift is not a denial, so most families have no idea it is actionable at all. It is. Here is the paper trail that makes it actionable. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Michigan services 31 Dollars […]
- [The Economic Case for HCBS Investment: What Maine's $1 Billion Loss Teaches Michigan](https://oasisforautism.com/the-economic-case-for-hcbs-investment-what-maines-1-billion-loss-teaches-michigan/): What Maine’s billion dollar hole teaches Michigan Community based support costs roughly a third of institutional care, generates more economic activity per dollar than most state spending, and is the only part of the system federal law lets a state cut. Somebody explain that. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Economic analysis 3 […]
- [Tax Breaks You're Probably Missing as a Disability Caregiver](https://oasisforautism.com/tax-breaks-youre-probably-missing-as-a-disability-caregiver/): Seven tax breaks disability caregivers keep leaving on the table Most families supporting an adult child with a disability claim two of these. The other five exist, are legal, and are worth real money. Nobody at the CMH is going to mention them. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Caregiver finance 7 Breaks […]
- [The $1 Trillion Invisible Workforce: What Family Caregiving Actually Costs](https://oasisforautism.com/the-1-trillion-invisible-workforce-what-family-caregiving-actually-costs/): The trillion dollar workforce nobody pays Fifty nine million Americans provide 49.5 billion hours of unpaid care each year. AARP values it at $1.01 trillion. That is more than every dollar of federal, state, and local Medicaid spending combined. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Caregiver economics 59 Million caregivers Unpaid. Uncounted. Load […]
- [The HCBS Relief Act and HCBS Access Act: The Bills That Could Save Your Services](https://oasisforautism.com/the-hcbs-relief-act-and-hcbs-access-act-the-bills-that-could-save-your-services/): The two bills that could actually save your services One puts emergency money into a collapsing workforce for two years. The other removes the structural rule that makes an institution bed an entitlement and a support worker in your home a favor. Both need cosponsors. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Federal legislation […]
- [Michigan's FY 2026-27 Budget: What's at Stake for Disability Families](https://oasisforautism.com/michigans-fy-2026-27-budget-whats-at-stake-for-disability-families/): Michigan’s FY27 budget, read the way a disability family reads it Seventy five point two billion dollars, signed on July 21, 2026. Direct care wages held. The autism navigator survived. And the structural problems that put your family on a waiting list went entirely unaddressed. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Michigan budget […]
- [The One Big Beautiful Bill Act: What $1 Trillion in Medicaid Cuts Means for Your Family](https://oasisforautism.com/the-one-big-beautiful-bill-act-what-1-trillion-in-medicaid-cuts-means-for-your-family/): What $1 trillion in Medicaid cuts means for your family Home and community based services are optional under federal Medicaid law. Nursing facilities are not. When federal money contracts, states cut the optional column first, and they have done it before within living memory. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Medicaid policy 911 […]
- [Coalition Power: How Oakland County Families Killed a $215 Million Rate Cut](https://oasisforautism.com/coalition-power-how-oakland-county-families-killed-a-215-million-rate-cut/): How Oakland County families killed a $215 million rate cut Section 1033 would have stripped $4.56 an hour out of direct care agency rates while leaving the wage mandate in place. A coalition of Michigan families made sure it never reached the governor’s desk. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Michigan advocacy 4.56 […]
- [How to Testify at the Michigan Legislature: A Practical Guide for Families](https://oasisforautism.com/how-to-testify-at-the-michigan-legislature-a-practical-guide-for-families/): How to Testify at the Michigan Legislature: A Practical Guide for Families Three minutes. That’s often all the time a family gets in front of a legislative committee. Used well, it’s enough time to change a vote. Here’s exactly how to use it. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · Three minutes, used well […]
- [The Michigan Advocacy Toolkit: 7 Free Resources Every Family Should Know](https://oasisforautism.com/the-michigan-advocacy-toolkit-7-free-resources-every-family-should-know/): The Michigan Advocacy Toolkit: 7 Free Resources Every Family Should Know Seven free, real, currently active tools and organizations, each doing something specific a Michigan family can put to use directly, whether that’s tracking a bill, filing a complaint, or telling a story that actually changes a legislator’s mind. By Jim Palasty · 11 min […]
- [The Michigan 5-Step Transition Survival Guide](https://oasisforautism.com/the-michigan-5-step-transition-survival-guide/): The Michigan 5-Step Transition Survival Guide Five specific steps, in order, for a Michigan family navigating the years around their autistic child’s eighteenth birthday. No single one of these is complicated. Doing all five, in time, is what actually matters. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Five steps, in the right order, on […]
- [Why Your IEP Transition Plan Is Probably Failing (And What to Fix)](https://oasisforautism.com/why-your-iep-transition-plan-is-probably-failing-and-what-to-fix/): Why Your IEP Transition Plan Is Probably Failing (And What to Fix) Research on IEP transition plans finds an average of roughly three goals per student, with barely more than one and a half addressing life after high school specifically. Most transition plans aren’t malicious. They’re thin. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · […]
- [The Transition Crisis in Numbers: What the Data Actually Shows](https://oasisforautism.com/the-transition-crisis-in-numbers-what-the-data-actually-shows/): The Transition Crisis in Numbers: What the Data Actually Shows Roughly fifty thousand autistic young people turn 18 every year in the United States. The research tracking what happens to them next describes a systemic gap, not a scattering of individual hard-luck stories. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · A crisis with a […]
- [The ADA at 35: Why Severe Autism Still Gets Left Behind by the Law's Own Framework](https://oasisforautism.com/the-ada-at-35-why-severe-autism-still-gets-left-behind-by-the-laws-own-framework/): The ADA at 35: Why Severe Autism Still Gets Left Behind by the Law’s Own Framework Thirty-five years after the Americans with Disabilities Act became law, a July 2025 report argues its core framework, built around binaries like community versus institution and autonomy versus guardianship, still struggles to serve people who need 24/7, specialized, lifelong […]
- [HCBS Settings Rule Compliance in 2026: What Actually Changes for Families](https://oasisforautism.com/hcbs-settings-rule-compliance-in-2026-what-actually-changes-for-families/): HCBS Settings Rule Compliance in 2026: What Actually Changes for Families After years of statewide transition plans, provider audits, and compliance deadlines, the federal HCBS Settings Rule is finally reaching full enforcement. Here’s what that actually means for a Michigan family, in plain terms. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Years of compliance […]
- [The Olmstead Rollback: What the Executive Order on Institutionalization Means for Your Family](https://oasisforautism.com/the-olmstead-rollback-what-the-executive-order-on-institutionalization-means-for-your-family/): The Olmstead Rollback: What the Executive Order on Institutionalization Means for Your Family On July 24, 2025, a federal executive order instructed the Attorney General to reverse the judicial precedents and consent decrees that limit institutionalization. Federal enforcement of the right to community integration didn’t just weaken. It lost most of the people who enforced […]
- [Constipation as a Medical Emergency: The GI Crisis Hiding in Plain Sight](https://oasisforautism.com/constipation-as-a-medical-emergency-the-gi-crisis-hiding-in-plain-sight/): Constipation as a Medical Emergency: The GI Crisis Hiding in Plain Sight For a Level 2 or 3 adult, chronic untreated constipation is one of the most common causes of behavioral crisis, ER visits, and in rare cases, genuinely life-threatening impaction. It rarely gets treated with that level of seriousness until it’s already an emergency. […]
- [When Adults Are Diagnosed Late: Supporting Families Discovering Autism After Childhood](https://oasisforautism.com/when-adults-are-diagnosed-late-supporting-families-discovering-autism-after-childhood/): When Adults Are Diagnosed Late: Supporting Families Discovering Autism After Childhood A diagnosis at 34 doesn’t come with the paperwork trail a diagnosis at 4 does. Families discovering autism after childhood face a fundamentally different, and much less mapped, navigation problem. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · A diagnosis with no paper trail […]
- [Seasonal and Environmental Triggers: Managing Behavioral Changes Through the Year](https://oasisforautism.com/seasonal-and-environmental-triggers-managing-behavioral-changes-through-the-year/): Seasonal and Environmental Triggers: Managing Behavioral Changes Through the Year Every winter looks a little worse. Every school break brings the same rough week. Most caregivers notice the pattern eventually. Almost none of them plan around it in advance. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · A pattern most caregivers notice but never plan […]
- [What Direct Support Professionals Wish Families Knew (And Vice Versa)](https://oasisforautism.com/what-direct-support-professionals-wish-families-knew-and-vice-versa/): What Direct Support Professionals Wish Families Knew (And Vice Versa) The DSP workforce crisis gets discussed constantly in policy terms, wages, turnover rates, funding formulas. What almost never gets discussed is the actual relationship between families and the people showing up in their homes, and how often that relationship breaks down over things nobody said […]
- [The Functioning Labels Debate: Why It Matters for Your Family's Advocacy](https://oasisforautism.com/the-functioning-labels-debate-why-it-matters-for-your-familys-advocacy/): The Functioning Labels Debate: Why It Matters for Your Family’s Advocacy This isn’t an academic argument happening somewhere else. It shapes policy, drives funding decisions, and determines whether your adult child’s needs are even visible to the systems meant to serve them. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · A language debate with real […]
- [Service Animals, Therapy Animals, and Companion Animals: What Actually Helps](https://oasisforautism.com/service-animals-therapy-animals-and-companion-animals-what-actually-helps/): Service Animals, Therapy Animals, and Companion Animals: What Actually Helps Emotional marketing sells the idea of a service dog as a life-changing solution. Honest information about cost, timeline, and actual fit gets asked for constantly and offered rarely. Here it is. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · An honest answer to a question […]
- [Obtaining and Maintaining Identification Documents](https://oasisforautism.com/obtaining-and-maintaining-identification-documents/): Obtaining and Maintaining Identification Documents Every benefits application, every job opportunity, every bank account starts with a document most families assume is simple to get. For a Level 2/3 adult, it rarely is, and almost nobody warns you in advance. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · Four documents, and the process behind each […]
- [Co-Occurring Mental Health Conditions: When It's Not 'Just Autism'](https://oasisforautism.com/co-occurring-mental-health-conditions-when-its-not-just-autism/): Co-Occurring Mental Health Conditions: When It’s Not ‘Just Autism’ A clinician who attributes every symptom to autism isn’t being thorough. They’re skipping the exam. This single diagnostic habit causes more untreated suffering than almost anything else in this field. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · A habit with a name, and a real […]
- [Voting Rights and Civic Participation for Autistic Adults](https://oasisforautism.com/voting-rights-and-civic-participation-for-autistic-adults/): Voting Rights and Civic Participation for Autistic Adults Autism and intellectual disability do not automatically disqualify anyone from voting, even under full guardianship in most states. That fact gets violated constantly, almost always through ignorance rather than malice. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · A right lost more often to ignorance than to […]
- [Travel and Vacations with a Level 2/3 Autistic Adult](https://oasisforautism.com/travel-and-vacations-with-a-level-2-3-autistic-adult/): Travel and Vacations with a Level 2/3 Autistic Adult Many families stop traveling entirely once the logistics start to feel impossible. They don’t have to. The logistics are learnable, and a real program exists specifically to make air travel manageable. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · The program most families have never heard […]
- [Smart Home Technology for Safety and Independence](https://oasisforautism.com/smart-home-technology-for-safety-and-independence/): Smart Home Technology for Safety and Independence Affordable consumer technology has quietly gotten good enough to change daily safety and routine support. Almost nothing written about autism has caught up with what a $30 sensor can now actually do. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · Consumer technology that outpaced the advice about it […]
- [Preparing for Your Own Hospitalization: The Caregiver Emergency No One Plans For](https://oasisforautism.com/preparing-for-your-own-hospitalization-the-caregiver-emergency-no-one-plans-for/): Preparing for Your Own Hospitalization: The Caregiver Emergency No One Plans For You plan for every crisis your adult child might face. The one that keeps you up at night is the one where you’re the one who suddenly can’t be there. Almost nobody plans for that one specifically. By Jim Palasty · 11 min […]
- [Evaluating Providers and Avoiding Snake Oil: A Skeptic's Guide for Autism Families](https://oasisforautism.com/evaluating-providers-and-avoiding-snake-oil-a-skeptics-guide-for-autism-families/): Evaluating Providers and Avoiding Snake Oil: A Skeptic’s Guide for Autism Families An entire industry of questionable providers targets families precisely because the legitimate service system is so inadequate. Knowing the red flags is real protection, not cynicism. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Five categories of intervention worth real skepticism 5 Categories […]
- [Autism and the Criminal Justice System: When Your Adult Child Is a Suspect, Victim, or Witness](https://oasisforautism.com/autism-and-the-criminal-justice-system-when-your-adult-child-is-a-suspect-victim-or-witness/): Autism and the Criminal Justice System: When Your Adult Child Is a Suspect, Victim, or Witness Autistic adults are disproportionately represented in the criminal justice system, in every role that system has: accused, victim, and witness. Each role carries risks most families have never had to think about until it happens. By Jim Palasty · […]
- [Navigating Hospitals: Inpatient Stays When Your Autistic Adult Needs Surgery or Extended Care](https://oasisforautism.com/navigating-hospitals-inpatient-stays-when-your-autistic-adult-needs-surgery-or-extended-care/): Navigating Hospitals: Inpatient Stays When Your Autistic Adult Needs Surgery or Extended Care Caregivers consistently describe an inpatient hospital stay as among the worst experiences of their entire caregiving life. Planning ahead is the one thing that reliably changes that. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Three phases, each with a real plan […]
- [Grooming Battles: Hair, Nails, Shaving, and Personal Hygiene for Sensory-Defensive Adults](https://oasisforautism.com/grooming-battles-hair-nails-shaving-and-personal-hygiene-for-sensory-defensive-adults/): Grooming Battles: Hair, Nails, Shaving, and Personal Hygiene for Sensory-Defensive Adults No service category exists for the invisible daily battle over a haircut. It still consumes more caregiver time and energy than most things that do have a formal name. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · Five daily battles with no formal service […]
- [Incontinence in Autistic Adults: Management, Dignity, and Getting Help](https://oasisforautism.com/incontinence-in-autistic-adults-management-dignity-and-getting-help/): Incontinence in Autistic Adults: Management, Dignity, and Getting Help One of the most common daily realities of caregiving for a Level 2 or 3 adult, and one of the least discussed anywhere. Five different causes exist, and they don’t all call for the same response. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · Five causes, […]
- [The ER with an Autistic Adult: Preparing for the Visit You Can't Avoid](https://oasisforautism.com/the-er-with-an-autistic-adult-preparing-for-the-visit-you-cant-avoid/): The ER with an Autistic Adult: Preparing for the Visit You Can’t Avoid Every caregiver of a Level 2 or 3 adult eventually faces this. Almost every one of them describes it as one of the most traumatic experiences of their caregiving life. It doesn’t have to go that way every time. By Jim Palasty […]
- [Managing Self-Injurious Behavior and Aggression at Home: Safety Without Restraint](https://oasisforautism.com/managing-self-injurious-behavior-and-aggression-at-home-safety-without-restraint/): Managing Self-Injurious Behavior and Aggression at Home: Safety Without Restraint System-level crisis response gets written about constantly. What actually happens in your living room, alone, at eleven at night, almost never does. This is that guide. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Restraint techniques this guide recommends: zero 0 Restraint techniques this guide […]
- [Aging with Autism: What Happens in the 40s, 50s, and Beyond](https://oasisforautism.com/aging-with-autism-what-happens-in-the-40s-50s-and-beyond/): Aging with Autism: What Happens in the 40s, 50s, and Beyond The first generation diagnosed with autism in childhood is now reaching middle age, and almost no one can tell you what to expect. You’re not behind on research everyone else has read. It barely exists yet. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · […]
- [Menstruation and Reproductive Health Management for Autistic Women and Girls](https://oasisforautism.com/menstruation-and-reproductive-health-management-for-autistic-women-and-girls/): Menstruation and Reproductive Health Management for Autistic Women and Girls Caregivers ask about this constantly in every support group that exists. Published guidance almost never answers them, because almost everything written about menstruation and disability stops at childhood. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · A subject caregivers ask about daily and almost nobody […]
- [Sexuality, Relationships, and Sex Education for Autistic Adults with High Support Needs](https://oasisforautism.com/sexuality-relationships-and-sex-education-for-autistic-adults-with-high-support-needs/): Sexuality, Relationships, and Sex Education for Autistic Adults with High Support Needs Adults with high support needs are sexual beings with the same developmental drives as anyone else. Silence on this topic doesn’t protect anyone. It creates the exact vulnerability caregivers are most afraid of. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · The silence […]
- [Pain Assessment in Nonverbal Autistic Adults: When Behavior IS the Symptom](https://oasisforautism.com/pain-assessment-in-nonverbal-autistic-adults-when-behavior-is-the-symptom/): Pain Assessment in Nonverbal Autistic Adults: When Behavior IS the Symptom A broken bone, a kidney stone, an abscessed tooth. None of them announce themselves with words in an adult who can’t easily report pain verbally. They announce themselves as behavior, and too many providers stop looking once a behavior plan is on the table. […]
- [Dental Care for Autistic Adults: The Crisis Nobody Talks About](https://oasisforautism.com/dental-care-for-autistic-adults-the-crisis-nobody-talks-about/): Dental Care for Autistic Adults: The Crisis Nobody Talks About A toothache doesn’t announce itself politely in an adult who can’t easily say where it hurts. It shows up as self-injury, food refusal, or a sleepless week, and too often nobody connects the dots to a mouth nobody’s looked inside in years. By Jim Palasty […]
- [Disabled Adult Child (DAC) Benefits: The Social Security Upgrade Most Families Miss](https://oasisforautism.com/disabled-adult-child-dac-benefits-the-social-security-upgrade-most-families-miss/): Disabled Adult Child (DAC) Benefits: The Social Security Upgrade Most Families Miss Your adult child may be entitled to Social Security benefits based on your earnings record, not theirs, the moment you retire, become disabled, or die. Most families never hear the term until it’s almost too late to plan around it. By Jim Palasty […]
- [Michigan: Organizing Locally (Support Groups, Coalitions, Mutual Aid)](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-organizing-locally-support-groups-coalitions-mutual-aid/): Organizing locally (support groups, coalitions, mutual aid) When the formal system lags, four or five families who trust each other can build something the state hasn’t. A shared ride, a respite trade, a provider tip, a testimony written together. It starts smaller than people expect. By Jim Palasty · 9 min read · What four […]
- [Michigan: The Waskul Settlement and What It Means in Meetings](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-the-waskul-settlement-and-what-it-means-in-meetings/): The Waskul settlement and what it means in meetings A 2013 class action settlement already tells your CMH exactly how services are supposed to be decided. Most families have never heard its name, let alone said it out loud in a planning meeting. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · A legal settlement most […]
- [Michigan: Appeals, Grievances, and Fair Hearings](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-appeals-grievances-and-fair-hearings/): Appeals, grievances, and fair hearings (MDHHS/PIHP denials) A denial letter looks final. It isn’t. Michigan gives you a real, structured path to challenge it, with a clock that starts the moment the letter arrives. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · The 90-day clock that starts the moment the letter arrives 90 Days to […]
- [Michigan: Transportation Barriers (Paratransit, NEMT, and Workarounds)](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-transportation-barriers-paratransit-nemt-and-workarounds/): Transportation barriers (paratransit, NEMT, brokerages, and workarounds) A missed pickup doesn’t just cost a ride. It costs the appointment, the day program slot, the job shift, and sometimes the entire service plan built on the assumption transportation would show up. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · Five transportation systems, and where each one […]
- [Michigan: Influencing Your Local CMH Board](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-influencing-your-local-cmh-board/): Influencing your local CMH board (who’s who and how to testify) Somewhere in your county, twelve people you’ve never met vote on the policies and budgets that shape your family member’s services. Their meetings are public. Almost nobody shows up. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · Twelve strangers voting on your family’s services […]
- [Michigan: MiNavigator and Other Navigation Supports](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-minavigator-and-other-navigation-supports/): MiNavigator and other Michigan navigation supports Somewhere in Michigan’s state government sits a program built specifically to help families like yours find their way through the maze. Most families reach the maze first. By Jim Palasty · 9 min read · Six navigation resources worth calling before you give up 6 Michigan navigation resources worth […]
- [Michigan: Budget Cuts and Loss of Navigation Resources](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-budget-cuts-and-loss-of-navigation-resources/): Budget cuts and loss of navigation resources When a state cuts funding to the organization that helps you find every other service, the cut doesn’t show up on a services list. It shows up as silence the next time you call for help and nobody answers. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · What […]
- [Michigan: Special Education Funding Reform and the MI Blueprint](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-special-education-funding-reform-and-the-mi-blueprint/): Special education funding reform and the MI Blueprint School funding sounds like someone else’s fight once your child ages out. It isn’t. Every dollar Michigan fails to invest in special education early becomes a bigger crisis in the adult service system later, and caregivers who’ve already lived that crisis have standing to say so. By […]
- [Michigan: Understanding Service Deserts and Waitlist Delays](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-understanding-service-deserts-and-waitlist-delays/): Understanding service deserts and waitlist delays Some Michigan counties simply don’t have the service you need, at any price, on any waitlist. That’s not a failure of your advocacy. It’s a service desert, and it has a specific, documented cause. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · When the service genuinely doesn’t exist nearby […]
- [Michigan: Long Term Care Ombudsman for Adult Foster Care Residents](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-long-term-care-ombudsman-for-adult-foster-care-residents/): Long Term Care Ombudsman for Adult Foster Care (AFC) residents An adult in AFC has an independent advocate whose entire job is investigating exactly the complaints families are afraid to make out loud. Most families spend years not knowing this program exists. By Jim Palasty · 9 min read · An advocate independent of the […]
- [Michigan: Therapy and Peer Groups Near You](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-therapy-and-peer-groups-near-you/): Therapy and peer groups near you (including neurodiversity-affirming groups) Isolation is one of the quietest crises in adult autism services, and it hits differently depending on your zip code. Metro Detroit has options. Much of the Upper Peninsula has almost none in person. Virtual access changes that math. By Jim Palasty · 9 min read […]
- [Michigan: Project SEARCH and Other Employment Pathways](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-project-search-and-other-employment-pathways/): Project SEARCH and other Michigan employment pathways A year spent training entirely inside a real workplace, not a classroom simulation, changes what employers see and what students believe about themselves. Five major Michigan employers already host it. Most families never hear about it until senior year is almost over. By Jim Palasty · 10 min […]
- [Michigan: Intentional Communities and Alternatives to Group Homes](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-intentional-communities-and-alternatives-to-group-homes/): Intentional communities (LINCs, ICW) and alternatives to group homes Group homes run on facility schedules, not individual ones. A small number of Michigan communities flipped that arrangement, giving adults their own front door while keeping support and connection close by. Most families have never heard the names LINCs or ICW. By Jim Palasty · 9 […]
- [Michigan: MI-CARE Clinic and Other IDD-Affirming Care Models](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-mi-care-clinic-and-other-idd-affirming-care-models/): MI-CARE Clinic and other IDD-affirming care models Fifteen-minute appointments and rushed exam rooms fail autistic adults in specific, predictable ways. A handful of Michigan clinics built something different. Most families never hear about them until they’ve already given up on finding decent care. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · What a healthcare visit […]
- [Michigan: The 'Age 26 Rule' for Extended Transition Services](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-the-age-26-rule-for-extended-transition-services/): The ‘Age 26 rule’ for extended transition services Most states cut special education off at 22. Michigan doesn’t, if your family member has a cognitive impairment eligibility and was already receiving services at 22. Almost nobody tells families this exists before it’s too late to use it. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · […]
- [Michigan: MiABLE Accounts and Michigan-Specific Tax Benefits](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-miable-accounts-and-michigan-specific-tax-benefits/): MiABLE accounts and Michigan-specific tax benefits Every dollar saved for your adult child’s future used to threaten the $2,000 SSI asset limit. MiABLE changed that math, and Michigan added a tax break on top of it that most families never claim. By Jim Palasty · 10 min read · A state tax deduction most Michigan […]
- [Michigan: Your Rights Under the Michigan Mental Health Code](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-your-rights-under-the-michigan-mental-health-code/): Your rights under the Michigan Mental Health Code A psychiatric crisis strips away the illusion that you’re in control of anything. The Mental Health Code says you and your family member still have rights inside that chaos. Almost nobody hands you the list. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · Eight rights the crisis […]
- [Michigan: When CMH Says There Are No Crisis Residential Beds](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-when-cmh-says-there-are-no-crisis-residential-beds/): When CMH says there are no crisis residential beds “No beds” is one of the most frightening sentences a family can hear during an active crisis. It is also, more often than families are told, a starting position rather than a final answer. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · What “no beds” actually […]
- [Michigan: Crisis Services and Autism (988, MiCAL, Mobile Crisis, EmPATH)](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-crisis-services-and-autism-988-mical-mobile-crisis-empath/): Crisis services and autism: 988, MiCAL, mobile crisis, EmPATH Michigan has more than one number to call in a crisis, and knowing which one to dial, and what to hand the responder the moment they arrive, changes the outcome more than almost anything else you can control. By Jim Palasty · 13 min read · […]
- [Michigan: MRS as an Underused Employment Resource](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-mrs-as-an-underused-employment-resource/): Michigan Rehabilitation Services: the employment resource nobody mentions Michigan Rehabilitation Services is federally mandated to provide free employment services to people with disabilities, autism included, starting years before graduation. Most families never hear the name until it’s almost too late to use it well. By Jim Palasty · 13 min read · Free help most […]
- [Michigan: The Age-21 Cliff When the Medicaid Autism Benefit Ends](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-the-age-21-cliff-when-the-medicaid-autism-benefit-ends/): The age-21 cliff when the Medicaid Autism Benefit ends Michigan’s Medicaid Autism Benefit does not send a warning letter before it ends. It simply stops on a birthday, and what replaces it depends entirely on whether your family started the paperwork months earlier. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · A cliff you can […]
- [Michigan: Self-Determination and Self-Directed Budgets](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-self-determination-and-self-directed-budgets/): Self-determination and self-directed budgets Hiring your own staff and controlling your own budget sounds like freedom, and it is, right up until you realize you’ve become an unlicensed small employer. Here is the roadmap and the pitfalls nobody mentions at the intake meeting. By Jim Palasty · 12 min read · Control comes with paperwork […]
- [Michigan: Community Living Supports and Requesting More Hours](https://oasisforautism.com/michigan-community-living-supports-and-requesting-more-hours/): Community Living Supports: how to request more hours The hours you get are driven by the words in your documentation, not by how tired you sound on the phone. Here is how to word a request so it reads like a level-of-care case instead of a complaint. By Jim Palasty · 11 min read · […]

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